I would get onto RCBS.com and start there. I bought their starter kit which came with the basics of everything you will need and when i got it, it came with a hornady manual, but i would get a manual for which ever bullet you want to shoot. I love shooting Sierra's so i call them, get advise from them and bought their manual. RCBS has step by step instructions on how to reload, but also do your homework and read alot. I taught myself too, but i did alot of reading. It takes time and 100% of your attention, if you want to do it right. But start there, thats what i did and i have it down really well now!
just a word of caution. when you start out, follow loads given in manuals not those listed in forums. I have on numerous occasions read recipes that far exceeded safe pressures.