Were using the new smaller jetboil to boil water and use mountain house packages to cook everything in for the trip... Also carry a spork and a collapsable cup for the cocoa...
I cook my mountain house meal in the bag and eat the whole thing. I also have the Jetboil sol TI. For cookware in the mornings is put oatmeal in a heavy duty ziplock bag and add boiling water to that. Cookware is one more thing to have to carry and clean. I do have a titanium sea to summit long spoon for mountain house meals.
x3 for Snowpeak titanium, pot giga power stove. great very lightwt, but pricey--
I bought the tall 28oz(?) titanium pot kit last year. I know it fits perfect with the stove and one can. I put 2 fuel cans in the pot and my stove snugs into the top of the mesh bag on top of the lid.
Last weekend my brother and I cooked up some elk steak with our stoves side by side under a skillet. Just because you are in a campground doesn't mean you can't go lightweight.